From this video
https://www.bilibili.com/video/BV1kB4y1Q7nn?spm_id_from=333.1007.tianma.1-3-3.click&vd_source=60064b28be52500ccc945fd8bd7e934b

Yea what would happen after 10 year with you?
In 10 years time, we would get married, have a children, earn more money, and etc. But that is just one way of living, your peers who are in acedmics might become a professor in some famous univeristies. Everything can happen in 10 year time.
You might be wonder, what are the key factors that made the differences? Welp we can’t find any.
Is it hardwork? Maybe, but there are a lot of people who did hardwork, but they you would see their grades was actaully going down for some reason. They have a lot of pressure and they seems to be stucked in a dead cycle.

But again, you cannot success without any hardwork. As a result, hardworking is the at least thing that we can do.

Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional

There are many possible roads of your life, but it does not mean u will be stuck in one road. You can switch to any other roads you want, but there are cost when you switch between the roads.

逆水行舟，不进则退。
You cannot stay there, you must keep going up and up.
As a programmer, you need to keep going up and up. Learn more and more.

A breif summary:
1，同一学校毕业的，也能发展差别很大，世界是荒谬混沌的。但持续的努力是个人唯一能把握的事，否则只能被命运掌控住。
2，不同的道路都可追求自己努力的上限，不管个人运气好坏，不要相信能平着躺平，世界充满着争夺挤压抢占，充满着洗牌，不进则退。
3，生活架构要尽可能搭建在自己身上，而不是依靠外界和他人，持续创造价值，持续成长，才能抵抗未知的风险。
4，收入是跳跃式增长的，提供的价值上台阶了，收入才会跳跃式增长。收入和提供的价值是个价格和价值的关系，可能会有德不配位和通货膨胀，最终会有价值回归，专注价值提升。
5，请提高抗挫折能力，请习惯日常的挫折，这就是人生常态，这个世界没有答案。

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